What to do when a loved one disapproves of you getting a reading?

I was on my way to the gym this morning, the sunlight is now waking up later than earlier in the summer, and this entry’s idea dawned on me! I got on the treadmill, sent myself a reminder, and entered into the Day-Dream State to let the Muse guide me.

So! What do you do if your friends and/or family members disapprove of you getting a reading?

This can happen especially within romantic relationships. I have a friend of mine speak about my services to some of her clients when my friend feels like my work can provide meaningful assistance. More often than not…my friend’s client shares that her husband does not approve of readings. Interesting.

This brings me back to a part of Sylvia Browne’s book, the pink one, I wrote an entry about that wonderful book, but I cannot recall the title. Case Files of a Psychic? It had a lot of her clients’ testimonials and letters to Sylvia. My god, I love Sylvia! Anyhow, this one letter always stuck out to me. One of Sylvia’s clients explained how people around her thought she was crazy to request a reading and the client even thought she was a bit looney to pay Sylvia’s fee. However, this particular client was happy with the reading because of Sylvia’s accuracy and the events that unfolded which aligned with the reading.

If a loved one disapproves of you getting a reading then this may be a point of Initiation for you…a point of Individuation. I would ask yourself why it matters so much to you what a loved one thinks. Why does this loved one’s opinion matter so much to you and why does it have a hold on you? Seriously, why does it matter?

If you ask yourself those questions while you’re alone and in reflection/contemplation then you may find yourself met with aspects of this relationship which are not supportive and enhancing to your life. This reflection may even illuminate aspects of your psyche which are tethered to the opinions of others. Is getting a reading the only part of your life which you allow others to influence your decisions?

Wanting…Needing…Desiring the approval of others is something that we can all experience at a stage in our life. This want, need, desire could very well be anchored into a past experience which then formed, molded your present-day Thought-Emotion-Action Loops. But at some point in your life…it is time to embrace You and to release yourself from those anchors.

If a loved one attacks you…shames you…bombards you with negative reactions to you getting a reading by me or another practitioner then is that loved one an addition and an enhancement to your life?

Our Family of Origin, Our Tribe, Our Present-Day Social Constructs do have a field of gravity surrounding us. We all have different experiences and we are all at various stages in our Individuation Process. I can easily declare “who the hell cares what a loved one thinks about you doing something that you want to do!” For myself, I have journeyed down my healing marathon and I do what I desire to do and I will not do what I do not desire to do. I am not easily influenced by others. But…for you…I don’t know where you are at on your journey.

If you have Higher Mind and your Intuitive Instrument continuously nudging you, encouraging you, shouting at you, and directing you to schedule a reading with me or another authentic practitioner and you’re met with a conflict regarding the approval of your loved ones then I say this is a Point of Individuation for you. This conflict is to Illuminate the anchors you have to those around you and even Highlighting your Self-Esteem.

When my friend shares with me that XYZ of her clients wants a reading, but will not schedule one because of ABC loved one’s disapproval then I just shrug my shoulders and I’m unbothered. I know that a reading is scheduled when a client aligns with the Inspiration that pops into his/her Mind Tool and the client Acts on the Breadcrumb. I’m not here to read everyone nor do I want to read everyone. I structured my practice to read those who are magnetized to my work and Inspiration strikes.

What do you do if a loved one disapproves of you getting a reading? Well, you make time to sit with yourself and Reflect.